Tuesday, 25 December 2012

Pebbles again... :)

Pebble 1

Learning to accept the apologies you never got is the best way to attain peace. Forget the hurts of past and cherish what ever is happening right now and look forward to your intuitions. They know what is right somehow. And always remember something amazing is out there to embrace you. 

Pebble 2

Just speak truth even if it would hurt the other person. There is no need to comfort anyone with lies. Remember if you speak things contrary to the facts you will be sooner or later be exposed. There is a reason why it is said you should think before you say something. Because God would make you contradict your own statements and expose you right in front of the person to whom you said. Think! Be true to your conscience.

Pebble 3

Forget the past but never forget the lessons. If history repeats itself it only shows how incapable we are learning from our experiences. The only person we should be better than is the person we were yesterday. Improvement does begin with "I".

Pebble 4

It is not assured you will get affection from people on whom you have affection. It only means if you treat everyone with affection you will get back from the same person if not some thing much better from others :) There are always people who are indifferent to you how much ever you care. World is no paradise for everyone we relate to relate back to us but world is no hell either. There is always someone who likes you for what you are and will treat you well.

Pebble 5

One can't stop people from judging you even though you don't judge them. The only thing in our hands is not to worry about their judgement. What others think about you after you have explained well and courteously are not your business to deal with.

Pebble 6

Sometimes we have to just accept that some things are just supposed to be the way they are. There are people who would be determined to do the same things how much ever you are hurt by it. There are only two things to do. Accept the way they treat you or just walk away if you are unhappy with it. If you find it too hard to go for the latter the only option you have is the former. Then don't blame others if you go through the same experience. Normally when you settle for less than you actually deserve you get even less than what you had settled for. So better to hope for the best and prepare for the worst in any scenario. That's the world's gift and it makes life interesting :) 

I am reminded of a quote which states, "It is good to give when asked. But it is better to give unasked through understanding". Some would do neither. Some will do both. Forgive the former for hurting you and cherish the latter for their efforts. When it comes to basic courtesies and mutual communication don't go for good when you deserve better. And each one of us deserves something better when we have put our efforts sincerely.
Have a wonderful day as good as you are :)


Pebble 7

I believe this in every relationship. Be it with your parents friends, siblings or those who you consider as your brother sister or any one. You can be angry but still cannot stop caring about their wellness. To be angry is to care tremendously. A willingness to risk a confrontation to sort out things. Opposite of care is indifference

Pebble 8

Silence after expressing / explaining so much is the best way to exhibit your seriousness. If people don't understand your affection they would never understand your words. If your trust, care and presence don't matter do you even think your words would?

Do things to people who would cherish it and wants it even if its going to be a small message or a little phone call

Have a wonderful peaceful day :)

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