Monday 10 December 2012

Sandy's Shores - pebbles from my thoughts

Pebble 1

There is a difference between optimism and absolute stupidity. Believing some things contrary to the facts you know from the beginning and which had proved itself contrary to the belief you hold time and again with consistency falls in the second category.

Pebble 2

Life will give you the same lessons again and again till you pass it. History repeats itself till you decide to learn from it and correct the errors in judgement made earlier.

Pebble 3

Generally the person who inflicts the pain through insults finds it very easy to forget their actions. The recipient would have to carry the deep scar when it had to be self healed. Look out and self analyze your actions. World ahead is waiting to give everyone the same experience they gave to others.


Pebble 4

Concentrate on what is being said. It doesn't matter who is saying. As it is said if you judge a book by its cover you may be missing out on an awesome story.

Pebble 5


Direct meeting and phone calls will always put things in right perspective. That moment when you meet some one after so many years and you find there is no enthusiasm in them, they move away after having nothing to talk and finds it easy to ignore when you say you are hurt by their actions is the time you will get to know that you no longer belong to their life. You will know the amount of respect they give you. The person who does not treat you with respect sure would have not considered you close in first place.

The problem with our generation is we are confused by FB mails and messages and number of friends we have. (I would not say all but many seems to be) Nothing like the old methods of phone call and direct meeting. There is a difference between those who talk for time pass and those who talk because they want to talk to you.

Technology is good and should be used to their best level. But time and again we have to ensure that we are not losing the personal touch. As it is said, "Learn from the mistakes of others. You can't live long enough to make them all yourself."


Pebble 6


I read a quote which said "never chase or run after anything in life. If God wants you to have it, he will give it to you or in some places the quote is mentioned as if you deserve it God will give you".

I would like to add something to this quote. Some times in life you find certain things important to you. We may take lots of efforts to achieve something. It can be an academic achievement or even trying to make the other person understand how you feel and try to create the change you wish to see.

The world may term it as chasing or running after something. So far you don't give too much attachment and importance to results there is nothing wrong in trying what you want to do. There is no need to worry as to how other people may describe your acts.

Even after your efforts if the change you desire is not happening then it doesn't only mean God does not want you to have it or you don't deserve it, it means God wants you to have some thing much better than what you desired because you deserve something more!

Have a nice day

Pebble 7

Its always better to give as good as you get. World would be paradise if the ones whom we relate to could relate to us the same way. One of the worst feelings is to feel unimportant to someone who is so important to you! In a fight between "what you know" and "how you feel" use your brain not the heart. As it is said,"when dealing with yourself use the brain while dealing with others use the heart"



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