Monday 10 December 2012

Give as good as you get :)


It’s better to give, as good as you get. Never give your time and attention to someone who does not give the same in return with interest. If you give, you are only empowering someone to hurt you. It doesn't mean they are bad or you are not worthy.

I am reminded of lines I had read somewhere, "It is important to remember that a friendship is a two way thing, and if you repeatedly feel that you are the only one making the effort, it may be time to re-evaluate the friendship and consider whether it is something you should let go of, at least for now. While it is important to try not to harbor negative feelings towards your friend, if your friend no longer makes you feel happy, valued or good about yourself, then you may have lost the essence of what a good friendship should be about."

There is always a time to put a full stop to your explanations and stop screaming your emotions out. People may call that a drama and for you it may be honesty. But what is the point in screaming when there is wide distance and you know practically the other person won't hear. Stop screaming and turn around to look at the ones who are screaming for you.

The only people you need in your life are the ones that need you in theirs.

Love the ones who treat you right. Pray for the ones who don't.

Have a wonderful day with people who would reciprocate and treat you in the same manner as you do to them. With people who remember your actions, words and cherish you for what you are. With those who don't abruptly cut you off when you are telling them you experience with enthusiasm. With those who share as much as you do with same level of enthusiasm. With people who acknowledge you everywhere and don't treat you differently just because different people are around.  With those who relate to you the same manner as you do and make you feel valued.


2 comments:

  1. tough one....not many people will reciprocate what we feel exactly the same way. but love and friendship is exactly that...not expecting the same from the other. is it not? hmmm...something to think about. well written :)

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    1. Yes true what you are saying is about unconditional affection. And also respecting the fact each person is unique. But if we start relating too much to person who doesnt reciprocate too very often it would affect. So its all about protecting out own emotions without hurting others :) Thank you :)

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