"The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you’re special too.” love your partner fiercely. But always follow your own unique dreams and Desires."
This is a real good quote. Something I observe in people. Why maintaining individuality is considered as a sign of lack of love or affection ?
Is it the false impact created by the social media?
If one does not maintain individuality they can never truly appreciate themselves.
Then they cannot love themselves which means in the long run they cannot love anyone else. That's when relationship breaks
This holds good for any relationship
As long as you maintain the right balance and confidence and trust you do not need proofs to establish it.
Read a news that there was an argument just because a picture is not liked in face book ! Or the demonstration of love and affection had not happened via a public social media.
Yes you can and may do it at times and it's really sweet but that should not become a need
When what is casual becomes a need then the problem starts
You should be confident that your life is not dictated by public display of affection.
After all maintain privacy. Let you near and closed ones have their space in social media. If a close friend or closed one does not like your pictures or does not put a picture with you don't let it bother you. Don't fight with them for the public display. Have trust that it does not in anyway means they love you less. It necessarily need not be even fight even a sort of emotional conversation to make them do something in social media is a form of emotional blackmail driven by your unnecessary need of public display. At times its sweet but then make sure it does not become an habit. Love give affection but doing like this is long run is not healthy
Doing too much first then not doing anything etc creates confusion. Be calm and consistent. Don't exaggerate in happiness or sadness try to keep it balanced matured and sensitive
Leave so between spouses I hear some friends even fight over not liking or not putting dps and statuses. Avaluku pota enaku podala nulaam sanda and disappointment
Sadly need for public display of affection is becoming a psychological problem.
Don't let fb or watsapp determine the level of affection you have with your closed ones
Elame public la pesita thaniya ennama pudusa pesa?
Just remember our previous generation did not have fb or watsapp and they lived happily and more contended than any of us with social media.
Social media should be used to exhibit your thoughts. Share your love and affection once awhile it's very sweet. But when it's not there don't let that determine your life.
Stay happy. Give healthy space and have a long standing mutual respect and trust
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