What you tolerate is what you get! :)

When somebody does the same thing again and again just don't ask them the reason. Explain them once and give a decent chance to correct their actions which might have hurt you earlier. If they don't feel like changing there is no point in telling. Same comes when you want to be part of some event. If the people want your presence they would invite if not they won't. The answer is candid by their actions then why do you need words to explain you. Just don't ask them why you are not being made part of it. Sometimes what is important to you may not be important to others. Just think you have more time at your disposal to do things you like and to spend time with those who want to talk to you. Just leave them to do what they want. As for others be it anyone, you can only do two things accept them the way they are or just walk away saying "enough".

You teach people how to treat you by what you decide to tolerate! No point in passing the buck or feeling hurt or getting angry. To get angry is nothing but an act of punishing yourself. That is the reason I love the lines "Be happy for no reason, like a child. If you are happy for a reason, you're in trouble, because that reason can be taken from you." :) Be happy Goodnight