Promise!

Just think twice before using the word promise for anything in your life! Some times it ties our hand from doing anything we would want the most... It may make you helpless and would stop you from reaching solutions. Think hundred times before using it and once said it’s not meant to be broken. This is not for those who find it easy to break the promises this is for those who once give always stick by it. And it's for me and for those who believe in the sanctity of the word "Promise". Promise given in haste puts you in such a situation that following it becomes the hardest thing to do and you are left with no choice. Better don't use it and if you want to use it use it wisely. 

Improvement begins with "I"

You would never know whether you have corrected your reactions till you are tested with the same situation again.

When the situation that once made you get angry and react repeats and you absolutely don’t react quickly and you feel no anger towards the circumstance or the concerned people is the time you know you have actually improved way better than what you were before. :)

What you tolerate is what you get! :)

When somebody does the same thing again and again just don't ask them the reason. Explain them once and give a decent chance to correct their actions which might have hurt you earlier. If they don't feel like changing there is no point in telling. Same comes when you want to be part of some event. If the people want your presence they would invite if not they won't. The answer is candid by their actions then why do you need words to explain you. Just don't ask them why you are not being made part of it. Sometimes what is important to you may not be important to others. Just think you have more time at your disposal to do things you like and to spend time with those who want to talk to you. Just leave them to do what they want. As for others be it anyone, you can only do two things accept them the way they are or just walk away saying "enough".

You teach people how to treat you by what you decide to tolerate! No point in passing the buck or feeling hurt or getting angry. To get angry is nothing but an act of punishing yourself. That is the reason I love the lines "Be happy for no reason, like a child. If you are happy for a reason, you're in trouble, because that reason can be taken from you." :) Be happy Goodnight

Self Care!

"Sorry but I don't need part time people in my life you are either with me or you are not. You can't come and go as you please :)"

A popular quote in the internet these days.

There are times where you need to tell people this when they don't stick to you at your worst times! Sometimes no matter what the scar people give when they leave you at troubles remains. Never carry grudge or hard feelings but sometimes the people from past no longer belong to your future. Wish them well and say a goodbye and let go. After all people who stick to you at your worst times deserve to be with you at your best! It is not that you don't care about them unconditionally but it’s all about something called respecting and loving yourself. If you don't love yourself first you cannot love the world! :) Have a nice day.